I have worked in financial services for 20 years and advertising for 10. I’ve been very successful due to my skill in sales. But I’m done with the rat race and corporate America. It’s all a big lie.
We all do it to buy houses and get wives and kids and the American dream and it’s all a fat lie. But everybody’s buying it and they can’t invest fast enough or stay in it as long as they can as debtors because that’s what they’ve been sold and taught, and it’s all a lie.
You’re father told you to never to be a liar but that’s what you’re all living.
Imagine how you’re spending your life. In your apartment, Watching football with your bro’s or reading your comic books or whatever, and a lovely lady would come over maybe once a week and fuck you and love you. You are her one and only, and then when you’re done with dinner and sex and whatever else, she goes away until you summon her again for the same loving experience?
Perfect right?
You can’t. That’s for young men. You must marry, and get a house. mortgage and have kids. That’s what you’ve been sold so hard that you have lost yourself. You don’t know what you want anymore because your afraid your dream will fade. Your stupid legacy. Your shitty bloodline will end because of some shit your parents told you.
Lies.
All men want a lovely girl to make love to and have a cool life with, but think about it…it’s bullshit.
The marriage is a fortune. We hate that we have to spend two months salary on a ring. What huge diamond conglomerate set that number? Everything in this country is about making money.
It’s sad.
Hey, spend a thousand dollars on a dress that you’re only going to wear once! It’s a giant party that costs a fortune. All the planning and everything. It’s awful. I’ve done it and will never do it again. She twirls around in a white dress for one night in front of her family and friends, and the guy is not allowed to ever have sex with anyone else again.
I think it would be better if you just get married at the court-house, if you absolutely feel that you need to be legally bound to another person. It would be nice if everybody would just send money and that would be it.
Most people just settle anyway. They’ve run out of options or are simply tired of looking. Most women start panicking around 27 years of age and start getting serious about finding some shlub to help them pay down their revolving debt they cranked up in their 20’s buying handbags, booze, shoes, and vacations. They get a roof over their head and then start cranking out babies.
That’s it. Replicated a million times all over the world.
Thousands of dollars for the mortgage, the cars, and the kids!
Kids are an absolute fortune. Let’s have children so we will both have to work very hard for a very long time. What’s the point? There’s too many people in the world already. Then you have to get a bigger house in the suburbs where they have better schools.
They will push and struggle to make a bunch of money for a lifestyle that is absolute bullshit. It’s boring! What guy would want to work that hard and that long? Deal with a wife and kids everyday? It’s really not something I think most men realize they are getting into.
It’s almost never the guy’s idea to get married. The first set up is usually the best. You have your place, she has hers, sometimes you’re together and sometimes you’re alone. Perfect set up. That’s the set up I currently enjoy.
But what happens? Biological clock starts ticking.
“What are we doing? Where is this going?”
When you start to hear that shit, either run, or just surrender fellas.
Game over.
But it’s not all women’s fault. Some guys are just too insecure to be alone. They want that one chick that they can have sex with because they’re either not good at hunting, or have simply lost the will, or don’t have the fatal charm to go out and date.
I bet if you did a survey, and you could get the men to be honest, most would agree they would like to sit on the porch or go to a game, drink beer with their bro’s and get the occasional sex that’s consistent, and then just be left alone.
How cool would it be if Cinderella turned into a pizza and a six pack at midnight after she fucked your brains out for two hours and got off the property?
It’s sad. I hate seeing a bunch of broken down losers working their fucking asses off and getting pulled into jobs that mean nothing so they can support their lifestyles they built and they never really wanted any of that.
It’s all a lie.
We all want a simple uncluttered life, and we all end up miserable debtors.
Most people don’t have the courage to be alone.
To be in a room by yourself and take a deep breath and say:
Maybe marriage isn’t for me.
Somebody has to say this stuff, so it might as well be me.
Have a great week!
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Tanks Phicklephilly. I wouldn’t have put it so bluntly, but I do think men and women do need to spend more time thinking about what they really want, and not just follow along with what their friends are doing because that’s the default. And yes, get comfortable with being alone, so you aren’t driven to attach to the wrong person out of fear or loneliness. And whatever path you choose, participate in it, don’t just let it happen to you.
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Exactly. The post is blunt but I needed to write it. I’m still positive and love romance and like when I see happy couples but this had to be said.
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😂😂😂😂😂 I’m separating. I feel the pain. I was always afraid of being alone. Now the fear is not too great. I’ve had a trial run. I survived. Lol
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Great news. I wrote this piece some time ago. Just wasn’t ready to release it. It felt too personal and contrary to what Phicklephilly is. But it’s me so I have to be honest. Thank you.
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Even though guys only have chimed in, women sometimes feel that way too! We marry, but really find that the only thing that friggin’ ring bought us was bondage. In many cases a woman finds herself not only totally responsible for the kids they bring into the world (it was only joint at consummation) but later having to take on a day job because his alone doesn’t cut it. Add to that she’s expected to come home to wash, clean, cook because the lazy ass thinks his hard day at work grants him the right to loll around dozing off on the couch with a beer in hand, waiting for her to finish her “second job” . She then must be sexy, anxious and excited for her sweet hubby, drool still dripping from his mouth from couch lounging, where at days end she will pose like the lovely lady he married and he will maul her for the ultimate release of his days trials.
If she doesn’t have to get a day job then we can pretty much bargain on being ignored until it comes time for bed or if we missed cleaning/doing something to “His” specifications.
Big Sigh. We feel the same way too.
Back at you! LOL
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Thank you for your fantastic comments. I really wasn’t sure about this post when I wrote it. I kept it as a draft because I felt that it really didn’t fit into the Phicklephilly forum. But usually if I write something daring I always worry I’ll alienate my followers and come off angry or negative. Quite the contrary. It’s how I really feel and appreciate the words and support of readers like you! 🤗
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I couldn’t resist. I am married to a sweet guy, but he does drool a bit at days end. lol
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