8 Simple Reasons Why Men Avoid Ideal Women



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Murder Mystery Weekend – Chapter 2




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Why Dogs Are Replacing Men in Women’s Hearts



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8 Things Every Boyfriend Likes

Want to please your boyfriend and do not know how? Today I decided to bring you a short list of things that every boyfriend likes. It’s not about gifts, but about the actions you can take every day to improve your relationship and become a better girlfriend. The man is not that hard to perceive, as most women argue, they like almost all of things in common and it is about them that I will speak today. Ready to become a better girlfriend and surprise your boyfriend?

8 Things Every Boyfriend Likes

1 – A sincere girlfriend – Sincerity is certainly the basis of a relationship because with it comes trust. A relationship where both are not sincere is a relationship where there can be no trust and without trust you will lose a lot. On the other hand you will end up winning things that are not good, such as fear, mistrust, and jealousy that could jeopardize your relationship. Remember to be yourself, be honest and honest and the rest will come naturally.

2- A stable but challenging relationship – Men like to feel secure in their relationship but also enjoy challenges. Can he balance the balance and bring some of both? On the one hand you have to be able to make the other person feel secure in the relationship and still make it feel challenged to look for more. As? Maybe with a bit of mystery in the relationship or making it difficult once in a while. You will surely find the best way to do it.

3- A funny girl – Nobody likes a straight girl, bored and who never steps on the risk. Men in their generality like women who can take risks. Like a good joke. Let them know a good joke and above all know how to enjoy every moment in the best way possible.

4- Care, attention and understanding – Men also like simple things like caring, attention that the other person gives you and understanding, respect and all other things that make a relationship special. Learn to be a loving girlfriend, worry about him, show that he really likes your company and know how to give you support when he needs you most.

5. A person who surprises – All people like to be surprised. After all, who does not like surprises? In order to keep your relationship alive and well, you must know how to break the routine and the monotony of your relationship, always bringing something different. Men like an unpredictable girl, who knows how to surprise, who risks and who tries to make every moment something special.

6 – Someone like you – Do opposites attract each other? I would say yes, but for very little time. At the beginning of the relationship it can be exciting because they will always be doing different things, but when the relationship stabilizes they are the similarities and the little things they both like that will bring them together.

7- Someone who is not afraid to fight – A relationship is a constant struggle. Love itself is a constant struggle! We can not simply have the other person for granted and hope that love will last forever. It is necessary to fight for the other person and be ready to make concessions, to give the arm to cheer and more. Are you afraid to fight for your relationship? Your man might not like that.

8 – A person who accepts it as it is – No one likes to wear masks, so if your man shows his true side and does not bother trying to show a person different from what he is, you must too. Be honest. Be yourself! But more than that, learn to accept the other person as you are. After all, you fell in love with him or an image he created in your head.

These are 8 simple things that any boyfriend likes. Want to surprise yours and be the girlfriend he needs? So do not forget to follow these tips and more than anything, to put them into practice.


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The Confidence Gap In Men And Women: Why It Matters And How To Overcome It

In December of 1920, Amelia Earhart paid to go on her first plane ride. The experience lasted only ten minutes, but it changed the direction of her life: Amelia was determined to be a pilot. It didn’t matter to her that there were only a few women in the field of aviation. Through hard work and challenging conditions, she developed her skills. While other female pilots feared the long journey across the Transatlantic, Amelia’s gutsy determination led her to be first woman to fly it solo. The confidence she possessed was one of her greatest strengths and led her to set many  records.

Amelia Earhart was not the only highly competent female pilot during that time in history. Although she was skilled, I don’t believe that is what caused her to be so successful. Rather it was her confidence, her willingness to go after the impossible, and her belief that she could do it. At Zenger Folkman we’ve found that confidence proves to be equally as valuable as competence because it leads to action, attention, and resilience—all traits exemplified during Amelia’s transatlantic flight.

Amelia Earhart’s accomplishments were especially noteworthy at the time, because of her achievements in what had been a male domain.  Aviators were nearly all men. Gender differences in confidence are quite dramatic.  A study done at Cornell University found that men overestimate their abilities and performance, while women underestimate both. In fact, their actual performance does not differ in quality or quantity.

This female confidence challenge was also described as the “imposter syndrome” by Pauline Claunce and  Suzanne Imes. Women frequently express that they don’t feel they deserve their job and are “imposters” who could be found out at any moment.  They found that women worry more about being disliked, appearing unattractive, outshining others, or grabbing too much attention.

Men are not exempt from doubting themselves—but they don’t let their doubts stop them as often as women do.  A Hewlett Packard internal report found that men apply for a job or promotion when they meet only 60% of the qualifications, but women apply only if they meet 100% of them. What doomed them was not their actual ability, but rather the decision not to try.

Zenger Folkman’s research shows that as women’s experience increases over time, so does their confidence. The graph below shows that women’s confidence increases more with age than men’s. But consider the many opportunities lost in early years because of fear and lack of confidence.


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Dating and Relationship Advice: Do Some People Think Women Have Higher Sex Drives Than Men?

Why do so many people think women have higher sex drives than men?

I know SOME women can have higher sex drives than SOME men. There are some women who frequently have an intense desire for sex — and there are men who don’t — but on average men definitely have stronger sex drives than women do. I think even most women would admit that.

The average man just naturally has a higher libido than the average woman. Men have 7 or 8 times higher testosterone levels than women do. That has a huge affect on sex drive.

Yeah, some women want more sex than their male partners, but in general the pattern goes the other way. Pretty much every study and every measure fit the pattern that, overall, men are hornier than women.

“WebMD concurs, noting that study after study shows men with the stronger sex drive”

“According to Marta Meana, psychology professor at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, data overwhelmingly show that, typically, men have a higher sex drive than women”
Why do some people think women have higher sex drives than men?

Studies on female-to-male and male-to-female transsexuals lend these findings additional credence.

A study of 35 female-to-male transsexuals and 15 male-to-female transsexuals also supports the impact of androgens on sex drive. In a longitudinal design that tested patients before and 3 months postoperatively, found a decrease in sexual interest and arousability among the male-to-female transsexuals, who were administered anti-androgens and estrogens. In contrast, the female-to-male transsexuals, who were administered testosterone, reported heightened sexual interest and arousability. 

These data highlight the importance of testosterone in producing meaningful changes in sexual arousal and interest, even over a relatively short time.


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