In this world full of so many imperfections, how it is possible for the perfect woman to exist?
And yet, every man seem to have this image of the ideal woman in his head. Rather than a normal girl, she is a compound of physical characteristics and character traits.
Reaching out to thousands of single guys out there with the request to describe their idea of the perfect woman, we’ve managed to single out the seven key characteristic that set her apart.
The girl you are dating is hardly likely to possess them all, but you can still be looking for some or most of them.
But why seven, you may ask? Well, just think of the strong charisma this number has. Seven are, for example, the deadly sins we’ve always been told to stay clear of. And the wonders of the world that attract everyone’s imagination are also seven.
So, If you recognize some of the seven signs mentioned below in your partner, or the girl you’ve been dating – congratulations! If no, then perhaps she’s got some other qualities that we’ve missed. Do not ditch her for not being perfect! There’s no guarantee that the next one will be better!
1. She does everything in style
If there’s one thing that sets the perfect woman apart from all her less extraordinary sisters, it’s the class and style she projects in all of her actions and utterances. Every gesture she makes is full of grace and dignity, but one that comes from inside, not one that has been acquired just for the particular occasion.
Having set high standards for herself, she expects the same attitude from men, and will never condescend to being with someone who’s clearly out of her league. She can recognize a real man, even if he’s not wearing an Armani suit and hasn’t come to the party by a Ferrari. For her, it’s enough to hear the confidence in his voice and see the strength in his eyes.
2. Her ambitions are high
For a woman of such class and dignity as the one described above, it is normal to have high ambitions. She does not see her as a rich man’s accessory, for she isn’t a golddigger. Her ambitions go far beyond that. They are based on hard work, diligence, consistency and perseverance, and therefore they are realistic and feasible.
She knows what she wants, and she’s ready to work hard and make sacrifices for it. Many men have run away scared of her ambitions, but this does not seem to be bothering her. She is looking for the man who can embrace them. Speaking of the perfect woman’s ambitions, she certainly must know the balance between work and personal life.
It’s a common belief that men fall for challenging and difficult women, but here I’d like to mention that in this case challenging and difficult does not mean irresponsible and immature. The perfect woman certainly knows how to keep a man interested and intrigued, and yet she’s level-headed and mature; a wise head on young shoulders!
With such a woman by his side, every man can rest assured he’ll always get the support he needs to pursue his high ambitions and goals. By every great man in world history, there was an equally great woman.
4. She’s got brains, as well as looks
I know it can be difficult to figure out whether she’s a Harvard graduate on the first date, but you can easily figure out if her brains match the way she looks. Just talk to her. If she feels calm and comfortable discussing topics from different realms of life, then maybe she comes very close to the collective image of the perfect woman I’m talking about.
In this path of thought, she hardly notices men who tend to possess the emotional and intellectual range of a teaspoon. Tarzans and Robinson Crusoes stand zero chance of getting on her radar, because it is intelligence more than anything else that turns her on.
5. She’s outspoken and honest
The perfect woman, or at least those women who come the closest to this definition, has the courage to tell the truth, even when it hurts. She knows that when lying to her partner, she’s lying to herself. And when cheating on him, she’s cheating her own feelings.
You can easily tell if the woman in front of you’s got something to hide. Well, even if it sometimes is damn difficult to figure it out, you’ve got to try as hard as you can. If you’re looking for the perfect woman, you hardly have time to deal with a compulsive liar, do you?
If we perceive the relationship between a man an a woman as a house, the perfect woman knows that trust and respect form its foundations. She can be trusted, and naturally expects the same open attitude from the man beside her.
6. The perfect woman isn’t easy
Most girls and women who are dating actively have enough common sense not to go to bed with a man on the first date. With the perfect woman, however, this period can be a bit longer. This is because she wants to make sure that she is with the right man, and it’s safe to accept him as her lover.
More importantly, however, this is her strategy to test his interest in her. If he walks away in search for an easier girl, then he simply does not deserve to be her boyfriend. This type of behavior is quite natural. Being the weaker sex, women are cautious not to commit themselves to a man who’s not a good match for them.
7. She isn’t clingy either
As in everything else she does, the perfect woman carries herself in style in her relationships with men. She respects her partner’s personal space and expects the same from him.Therefore,
if you act as a clingy and needy wussbag around her, get ready for a farewell kiss on the cheek. She isn’t you mother to pamper you, nor is she your elder sister whose shoulder you can cry on.
Because she has a strong confidence in herself, a relationship with such a woman isn’t smothering, but motivating and inspiring.
She instinctively feels when to call or text, and when she should give you some time and space to be on your own.
As she isn’t a drama queen, she simply has no time for scenes of petty jealousy, followed by tearful attempts to get things back on track. If, driven by your own insecurity, you unjustly accuse her of cheating on you, drop all hopes that you’ll be able to make it up to her with huge bunches of flowers, boxes of chocolates, or expensive presents.
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