Turning a man on isn’t rocket science.
All you need to do is make sure that you know what you’re doing and that you mix things up every once in a while.
You cannot be too predictable because the more you repeat something, the less of an effect it will have. So don’t forget to be spontaneous, know how to be flexible, and be willing to adapt. And if you’re feeling lost and you’re unsure of where to start, you’ve definitely come to the right place.
Here are 5 bulletproof tips on how to turn on your man.
1. Approach him first
Show him your confidence by being the one who initiates intimacy in the relationship. A real man will greatly appreciate a woman who knows how to go after her needs and desires. Showing him that you’re interested first is an immense turn on for any man.
2. Be open-minded
Sure, this doesn’t mean that you have to be into everything he wants you to do; you always have power over these things.
But if he does something that you’re not entirely comfortable with, don’t rush to judge him for it, unless of course, he goes too overboard.
Each of us has our own tastes and sexual preferences, and we all need to be more or less understanding of that.
3. Talk about your sexual preferences
There is always something strongly alluring about being able to discuss your wildest sexual fantasies with the one you love. And it isn’t typically something you would be willing to open up about to any other person.
When you share these things with your man, it can be a really big turn on for both of you.
4. Make him know that you want him
There is a lot of negative societal programming for women regarding sex and sharing their sexuality with their men. They are told never to show a guy that they like him and never to expose their sexual side, but here’s the truth: men, as much as women, need to feel wanted.
You are both sexual beings, and as long as you are in a strong, healthy, and committed relationship, you should be allowed to act as such. And just like you need to feel wanted by your man, your man needs to feel wanted by you.
So don’t forget to remind him of how much you truly want him.
5. Talking dirty
Sexuality begins in a man’s mind. If you want him to be into it, you can try talking dirty in the bedroom. This will show him a wilder and more adventurous side of you that he may have never seen but has always dreamed of, and that’s where things will start to get interesting.
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