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5 Ways to Get Your Ex Back (Without Seeming Too Desperate)

Make him run back into your arms.

If you’re still in love with an old flame, even after a horrible breakup, you may constantly wonder how to get your ex back, make him miss you, and rekindle your relationship after a breakup.

You want to know how to make him miss you enough to call you again. And you want to know how to make him want you back and stay for good, this time.

The constant desire to get him back while obsessing about him, day and night, until you are blue in the face is the worst.

You are more than determined to win him back, even if the heartache pains you from stomaching another slice of pizza or pint of ice cream.

You just want him back so badly, you’ll do anything to breathe and feel free again from your thoughts on repeat.

Getting over an ex you still love is not easy.

You find yourself living under the covers day after day, the minute you walk through the door after work.

Watching mindless shows to distract yourself from entering the dark world seems like the only task you can manage.

Tossing back and forth in the wee hours, you end up staring at the ceiling with your brain running a full marathon in the middle of the night, thinking over and over again, “Will my ex come back?”

As if the emotional suffering wasn’t hard enough, now insomnia is seeping through the cracks.

The birds are beginning to chirp, but you can barely keep an eye open. The thought of facing another day without him is killing you inside.

Tears are running down your rosy cheeks while you keep asking yourself, “Why me?”

Finally, he sends you a text message saying, “Can we talk?”

As much as you want to respond right away, you wait a bit to collect yourself.

You are feeling a huge mix of emotions, but are at a loss for words because you don’t even know what he wants.

It’s been a few weeks of zero contact so you don’t want to mess things up.

If you still want your ex back, even if your breakup left you heartbroken (but still in love with him), here are the 5 things you need to do.

1. Give him space

A man will take his time when it comes to deciding what he wants and needs from a woman in a relationship.

And, unfortunately, sometimes this happens after the breakup when a man sits and thinks about how much value you add to his life.

It’s not that he didn’t appreciate you in the beginning, but men are wired differently.

A man can take much longer to process his emotions, as they possess more masculine energy than feminine.

Hiding their feelings on the sly is pretty common until they feel comfortable expressing them to you.

And when he says he wants to talk but is still on the fence of rekindling the relationship, give him space.

He will wonder why you aren’t pressuring him to get back together which makes him think about you even more.

And the more space you give him, the more he will want to come back on his own terms while thinking it was his idea all along.

But really, you inspired him to make his own decision by giving him a little space that a man craves in a romantic relationship.

Love needs to be free for it to breathe and grow.

2. Focus on your personal growth

A man loves a woman who builds herself up and has a strong sense of independence outside of the relationship.

Being committed to your goals and dreams will make him feel like he can’t live his life without you.

A high-value man will want a woman who works just as hard as he does and is his equal partner.

Being committed to your aspirations is what attracts a man to you.

A lot of men tend to run away from responsibility.

But, it doesn’t have to be this way if you know how to entice him with your witty banter and intrigue him with your feminine energy.

If you come off as a liability and want to be rescued, this will push him further away and out of reach.

The best thing you can do is share stories about your personal growth, like your community involvement or experiences from your bucket list.

He will see how your life is complete with or without him, which draws him in closer to be a part of it.

3. Find what makes him tick

Do you know what makes him weak in the knees? Usually, it’s the little things that make him smile and desire you.

Men are simple human beings, even though they come across quite complex.

He will typically tell you things in passing or random acts of small talk to see if you are listening to him.

If you know what makes him happy, do it. If he likes a homemade meal, then cook for him one night with a candlelight ambiance while playing his favorite songs.

He will love the fact you remembered some of his favorites which will make him feel like you understand him. And let’s be honest, who doesn’t want to feel special?

If you make him feel good when he’s around you, he will start to miss how being with you was so easy and fun.

And, slowly, he’ll start making his way back into your world.

4. Respect him as an equal partner

Men need respect before they ever fall in love or can stay in love.

By showing him you respect his feelings, his passions, his career, and overall lifestyle, he will be grateful you are treating him like an equal partner.

And the only way to receive respect and love from him is to show him respect first.

A man will not want to be told what to do or criticized for his mistakes over and over again.

This style of communication is bound to make him feel threatened and disrespected because he will feel you are trying to control him.

This may be the very reason as to why you two broke up in the first place.

5. Allow him to lead the connection

A man will need to be the one who pursues you even if you’re the one who pushed him out the door and want him back now.

If you try to take away his power, as a man, he will do the opposite of what you want. He will run for the hills instead of your arms where you want him to be.

Even if you were talking about marriage and kids prior to the split, leave these topics off the table until you redefine the relationship to a healthy stable place.

A man knows you will want to talk about the future, but this will add pressure to the connection and right now you just want him back.

Now that you know how to get him back, be patient and don’t rush the process.

Let things slowly build again, even if you dated for years. You have to take a step back and start freshly dating again until you work out your differences.

Being able to trust the process will give you the will power to hold tight until he’s ready in a respectful manner.

Getting back together with you will not be an overnight decision for him, but the more you are owning your worth and being respectful of his time he will be more inclined to recommit to you as a couple.

 

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9 Things That Scream, “I’m Not a Good Person”

Recently there was an interesting discussion on Reddit about the horrible qualities that make you stay away from a person. Users shared their life experience and recognize the “narcissist” in their friends or relatives. And it looks like some of them are very fed up with the rude behavior of others.

We at phicklephilly decided to dig deeper into some of the threads and find the psychological explanation of a “bad” person.

1. Avoiding responsibilities

“Avoiding your responsibilities and sticking someone else with the bill” was called out as one of the bad qualities on Reddit. Fear of taking any kind of responsibility can cause a psychological disorder.

A person, for example, can have a panic attack whenever they unconsciously realize that there is an obligation. It may happen for different reasons:

1. Low tolerance to negative emotions

2. Lack of courage

3. Low self-esteem

4. Fear of making mistakes and fear of failure

2. Inability to accept criticism

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Ouch. No one wants to be criticized. It hurts, but sometimes people can’t even swallow the simple truths about themselves. But being open to new information means an ability to change for the better. “Taking any kind of criticism or conflicting opinion as a personal attack” is not cool, according to Reddit users.

And if we can take criticism, we can grow. But there is still the question of why some of people can be so closed-minded:

1. They don’t rationalize.

2. They don’t want to make excuses.

3. They don’t minimize the problem.

4. They don’t want to share the blame.

3. Making fun of other people’s appearances

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People often insult each other intentionally, and the emotional scars from this linger for quite a while. People have a need to feel unique from others, but humiliation is not the right way to go about this.

Mocking another person for his or her appearance or views can cause a huge problem for both parties. It is difficult to manage your anger when you hear someone making fun of you or bullying you. In any case it’s better to:

1. Make eye contact and pause instantly.

2. Walk away and don’t react.

3. Minimize your contact with the aggressor.

4. Inability to apologize

If I did it, it wasn’t that bad. And if you are hurt, you deserve it. Words like this can finish off a man. Instead of an apology, you get aggression. Public opinion confirms: “I hate when someone just gives a vague “sorry.”

The reason why they do this can vary:

1. They’re afraid of taking responsibilities.

2. They don’t want to feel a shame that can be really unbearable for them. So each time they will try to make the situation even worse, than ruin a perfect image about themselves.

5. Being disrespectful to people and their work

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Being disrespectful to other people and to their work doesn’t help anyone. You just watch with an open mouth and you can’t believe that a person is serious. People who often behave disrespectfully to others may have:

1. A form of self-protection against feelings of inadequacy, or

2. A different style of communication that easily triggers misunderstandings.

6. Being 2-faced

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You meet someone who might talk to you nicely and even invite you for coffee, but then you find out that they say you are a freak behind your back. Betrayal!

“Back-stabbing people appear to be nice and helpful to your face, but sing a completely different tune behind your back.” These people may not like the other person, but they don’t have anyone else at the moment or they are afraid of confrontation and aggression.

It is better to:

1. Confirm your suspicions and not be in a rush to blame.

2. Get distant from this person.

3. Avoid revenge.

4. Have a frank and tough discussion with this person.

7. Applying certain rules to specific people, but not to themselves

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Hypocrisy is not a result of having double standards, but pretending you have one standard when you don’t have any. Saying one thing and doing another is not that rare.

1. The best way to get a reputation for fairness is to be fair. But since this is easier said than done, we more often choose appearance over reality.

2. Self-deception. Benjamin Franklin confirmed that humans exert very little effort to get real evidence when making decisions. Moreover, humans tend to think highly of themselves, and overlook weakness and failures.

3. Self-ignorance. Psychological researchers found that humans are accurate in their perceptions of others, but generally inaccurate in their perceptions of themselves.

8. Never tipping, even when you can afford it

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One research study showed that the extroverted qualities that people from certain cultures have are directly related to how much they tip — the more extroverted, the larger the tip. We have several different motivations for tipping:

1. Encouraging better service on the next visit

2. Rewarding a server

3. Gaining social approval

9. Being envious, even for a small win

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People get envious sometimes when they see you succeed. This could even include your best friend. But anyone can get envious and it’s a different story when you spoil someone’s moment who shared a victory with you.

Darwin’s theory of evolution says that humans behave in this way to enhance their individual survival. It drives a person. There are different styles of dealing with this, for example:

1. Always keeping your good qualities in mind.

2. Staying focused on something different, rather than being self-focused.

How do you normally react when a person is rude? Do you know of any qualities that can make anyone a dreadful human being to be around? Please, share your comments with us below!

 

 

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