I used to say that there is nothing like wife material.
But then in this life we are all in a certain group where we have been categorized. We have been put into different categories because of our characteristics and that is how we choose our friends and even fall in love with our partners. It is these categories that help us know who is who and this is also where wife materials come in. These are women not girls, women that are fit to take care of a family and understand that being a woman who is able to love and take care of her future husband is not bad but precious and important.
1. She knows how to cook.
It may not seem important but food is important and good food is everything. A lady who can’t cook is not someone who can be able to set high standards even for a house help. She should be innovative with her food because you can’t always eat out.
2. She’s independent and ambitious.
She knows what she wants and she goes for it.
3. She doesn’t live in bars and clubs.
Yes, she may go out once in a while but this is not the center of her life. She is determined to use her time wisely in things like reading or investing in other hobbies.
4. She knows how to dress for every occasion.
She knows that she cannot dress skimpy in front of your family and she knows how to dress sexily for you as well.
5. She gets along with both your family and friends.
Because those are the people she will need to get along with for the rest of your lives. She may not like them but she is wise enough to be cordial with them for the sake of peace in your relationship.
6. She actually cares about how you spend your money.
She doesn’t urge you to buy the most expensive shoes or clothes. She encourages you to spend wisely and even has tips on how to do so.
7. She tries to help you overcome your imperfections.
She understands that you’re an imperfect human being and that she may not fix you but she encourages you to do better.
8. She is thankful and appreciative.
Instead of complaining all the time, she appreciates you when you deserve it and she does not let her ego get in the way of loving you.
9. She doesn’t tolerate nonsense but she is not a drama queen.
She can call you out and she is not a pushover. She is the kind of person who will tell you when you’re wrong and is not afraid to air our her opinions, you also know she will eventually walk away if you take her for granted.
10. She is responsible with her finances.
She pays her bills and plans ahead of time. This is the kind of woman who will probably have a savings account for a rainy day.
11. You have similar interests.
You both like similar things and she also accepts the differences. For example if you’re watching football she doesn’t try to make you hate it she finds something else to do at that time.
12. You have been together for a while and you want to marry her.
You actually know that she fits your standards.
13. She is your ride or die.
You know she will be there through the thick and thin.
Thanks. I hope this was helpful. I’d like to hear your thoughts on this piece.
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