All men want to finally find their dream woman and live happily with her. Usually, the description of a dream woman is reduced to “a good woman”. Guys try their best, but in the long run, they find themselves with the wrong girls. But the thought that there must be a good girl meant specifically for them doesn’t let them sleep. The question is: how to find a good woman? How to distinguish her from others?
You get what you ask for.
Like attracts like. You are your thoughts. People who appear in your life are the mirrors of your own world. These statements are so true, indeed. Psychologists keep saying that you achieve what you deserve and what you are ready for.
If you’re endlessly moaning and groaning about how hopeless and miserable your life is, how unsuccessful you are with women, you program yourself for failure. If you see your life as a very complicated thing, it will be so for you. Just remember that the first step to success is the change in your attitude. Think positive and you’ll see how it will influence your life.
Know what you want.
Why is it so hard to find a good woman? The reason for that can be your vague idea about your ideal partner. You should know what kind of woman you want to date, like her main character traits, temperament, lifestyle. Also, you should be very specific in terms of your intentions. The point is to decide what type of woman you’re looking for. Then think about what kind of man who women would want and whether you are appropriate for her. Think what you can change about yourself, which traits and skills need to be improved.
Describe your ideal.
Vision boards work and you need to create one to attract a good woman into your life. For this, sit, take a sheet of paper and a pen, and create a detailed description of your perfect match. Focus on her personality at first, because appearance is secondary. While appearance can be improved, character is something incorrigible. In your mind, picture your acquaintance. Think what she is interested in, where she works, how she rests. Some may say that writing the description of your ideal woman is irrational because you fall in love unexpectedly, but who said that your invented image wouldn’t become real?
Be a good match yourself.
If you want a healthy relationship with a good girl, the first thing you should do is to get rid of your past, insecurities and fears. You should be an integral person. Forget about your previous unsuccessful dates, those are in the past. Have a firm belief that this time you’re going to meet your ideal woman. Be confident. But how to gain that confidence, you may ask? If you have a good job, good health, interesting hobby, there is no reason for self-doubt. If you lack confidence, simply improve the quality of your life and it will increase. Also, improve your image. Think in what way you can become better. Perhaps, you may need to work on such things as trust, courage, empathy, compliance, eye contact, etc. Increase your value in the dating market. Intelligence, charisma, good communication skills, purposefulness and confidence should be your main assets.
Where to find a good woman?
Well, you know what you want, you know how to behave – now you are ready to meet your perfect match. How to find a good woman to marry? Where do good girls hang out? Here are the statistics. 20% of couples meet at bars or restaurants, and 60% of couples get acquainted thanks to the common friends or some regular activity such as work, studies or hobby. Therefore, looking for the right woman among the tipsy girls in a club is not a good idea. Expand the range of possible places where you can meet your dream woman – from dating sites to drama classes.
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