Dating and Relationship Advice – 20 Tips To Improve Your Relationship Right Away

Being part of a couple is hard, but the best relationship tips are really all about maintenance. You’ve got to keep things fresh, find time for each other, and come up with ways to navigate the tricky ups and downs every partnership faces. That all sounds a lot easier than it really is, so we’ve come up with 101 ways to make your relationship even better.

From how to deal with jealousy to how to get over a potentially deadly lull, we’ve got 101 relationship tips that you can start implementing right now.

1. Listen.

It might sound obvious, but when you really allow yourself to listen—and ask questions about—what your partner says, it not only leads to better conversations, but also better communication.

2. Take a few days apart.

Missing each other is a great way to reconnect. Try grabbing some girlfriends for an overnight or a weekend getaway every few months.

3. Find a support team.

Have a handful of great friends or family members you can call so your significant other doesn’t have to hear every small grievance going on your life.

4. Put away your phones.

One of the biggest relationship tips is to give your undivided attention when your partner is speaking. It’s is one of the most important things you can do.

5. Volunteer together.

Giving back is a great way to keep perspective of how great your relationship is, and how lucky you both are.

6. Create a checklist.

Jot down new and fun things you want to accomplish for a day as a duo.

7. Talk to couples over 65 years old.

Get relationship tips from them, and see what you can take away to apply to your relationship.

8. Stop and appreciate all that your relationship is this very second.

Stop living for what it can be. This person is choosing to be in your life every day, not every day in the future.

9. Revisit the questions you asked in the beginning.

What are you hoping to accomplish in the next year? What are you scared of? These answers change, so we need to keep asking these questions.

10. Find 10 things you really love about them and tell them.

Guys need confidence boosters, too!

11. Stop nagging.

Seriously, stop. Take a step back and figure out the big things about your partner that truly bother you, and approach them from a place of concern and support instead of nitpicking for sport. That’ll get you nowhere.

12. Get over needing to be right.

Learning to say “I was wrong” is a skill worth learning.

13. Take care of yourself.

No relationship can be successful if you don’t feel good about yourself, both inside and out.

14. Know what you need and then ask for it.

You’re dating a human, not a magical psychic.

15. Take a class.

It’s proven that couples who learn together connect deeper. Find some common ground (cooking? art? science?) and go from there.

16. Stop complicating things that aren’t complicated enough.

Don’t pull a Carrie Bradshaw during the Aiden years: If you bemoan the fact that your relationship is going too well, you might need to revisit why you’re constantly seeking out drama.

17. Assume that if something was said that hurt your feelings, it wasn’t intended that way.

Why would they want to upset you or hurt you? Give your partner the benefit of the doubt, but if it’s really bothering you, don’t be afraid to bring it up.

18. Write notes.

Whether you have study hall together or live together, handwritten notes are personal touches in today’s highly digital world.

19. Pitch in.

Help each other with chores and other necessary, if banal, activities — cooking, cleaning, re-organizing, etc. Not doing them if you live together can create tension, and always doing them can create unfair expectations. Act as team of equals.

20. Disconnect.

Step away from the laptop during quality time. Everything on the Internet will still be there later.

 

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9 thoughts on “Dating and Relationship Advice – 20 Tips To Improve Your Relationship Right Away”

  1. Spot on. I really like the tips you mentioned, especially the point about pitching in. If couples did more of that, relationships would improve exponentially. It’s burdensome when one person carries most of the weight in the relationship. It’s important to help each other. This has been a game-changer in my marriage.

    I wrote a similar article. Some points mentioned are the same, but every writer is different. Would you mind checking out the article and let me know what you think? Please find the link attached. http://bit.ly/RelationshipGoalsforCouples

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