Dating and Relationship Advice – 6 Things That Happen When You Meet Your Soulmate

Since this dating and relationship advice column has been so successful. I’ve decided to keep it going. It’s been a huge undertaking. I’ve been doing research day and night, and have learned so much on this new journey. (I’ve even learned some things about myself!) I have appreciated all of the feedback and comments from all of my readers and for that I’m very grateful. I love that phicklephilly has evolved from just stories about my life to a way I can help others.

My writing workload has doubled but it’s been totally worth it. Thank you for all of your love and support.

I’ve decided to stop using stock photos from the internet for the advice column because it’s eating up all of my wordpress memory.

So you’ll get all of the great dating and relationship content, but you’ll have to only see my face on here from now on!

So let’s get back into it!

People more than often imagine and fantasize about their soul-mate. What is my dream person like?

The romantic connection that two souls share is one of the most important things that one couple should cherish forever.

Once this happens we have the expectation of everything to be a certain way, and if you’d like to find out the most common ways people feel when they meet their soul-mate, read below!

1. It’s a Miracle

You actually get the feeling like you’re experiencing a living miracle, which it actually is. That emotional state that you’re in is nothing less than a miracle, but not only for you but for the both of you. You feel a strange sense of fulfillment, belonging and love, and you feel like everything is going right.

Falling in love is one of the most important things that happen in your life.

2. Problem Solving Made Easy

Your partner should not only be your love interest, your partner should also provide you with the help that you need in order to grow as a person. You are going to have more space to fix other things in your life.

Writers say that a partner is someone who is not only your love, but your roommate, a joint-parent, and a financial partner who you cannot imagine your life without. Sure, being single is definitely not the worst thing and you for sure have the choice to be single if you want to, but having a partner gives you the opportunity to share a life with a soul through time becomes one with yours.

When you have someone to rely on, you feel more secure and more at peace with things. You’re going to come up with solutions and do everything a lot easier and quicker.

3. You Create Deeper and Broader Relationships with Others

Once you have finally done it and you believe that you have truly found your one true love and your soul-mate, you’re going to have more of the freedom and time that you need to devote to your family and friends, creating deeper and more meaningful relationships with them. This is because now you finally know a lot more about what love is, and what life really is about.

Make sure to make friends with the ones who support your relationship for the right reasons. Your real friends will support your love and encourage you to do the right things for your partner. They will always be realistic and constructive when it comes to giving advice regarding your relationship as well.

4. You Become a Matchmaker

Once you are in a relationship that you are growing and working on with the love of your life, you start seeing around, looking at your friends wanting the same for them. You want them to feel what sharing your life with someone looks like, and you try your best to help them out find someone.

You want to share the amazing feeling of fulfillment that you’re experiencing daily. And thanks to all of the knowledge you’ve collected throughout your relationship regarding love and having a partner, you become an eligible matchmaker, trying to find the best for your friend.

5. A Whole New World

Now that you are a person in a relationship, your whole entire world turns upside down, for all of the right reasons. You see a new reason for living life. You feel fulfilled and you just want the same for all your loved ones. Not only that, you’re also thinking about the future differently. This is all thanks to your very own soul-mate. And they feel the same way about you too.

The both of you are thinking about starting a new life together in terms of family. It’s all magical and it quickly becomes a priority for your, which is absolutely amazing.

6. Productivity

Since you’re so energized, you get the love that you deserve and need, you have a lot more enthusiasm to finish all of the errands that you need to run. At the end of the day, once you finish work you have a soul-mate to get back to! Which makes life 110% more magical.


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Tales of Rock – David Bowie

David Robert Jones was born on 8 January 1947, in Brixton, south London, England. His mother, Margaret Mary “Peggy” (née Burns; 1913–2001),[3][4] was born in Kent, and had Irish ancestry;[5] she worked as a waitress.[6] His father, Haywood Stenton “John” Jones (1912–1969),[3][4] from Yorkshire,[7] was a promotions officer for the children’s charity Barnardo’s. The family lived at 40 Stansfield Road, near the border of the south London areas of Brixton and Stockwell. Bowie attended Stockwell Infants School until he was six years old, acquiring a reputation as a gifted and single-minded child—and a defiant brawler.[8]

In 1953, Bowie moved with his family to the suburb of Bromley, where, two years later, he started attending Burnt Ash Junior School. His voice was considered “adequate” by the school choir, and he demonstrated above-average abilities in playing the recorder.[9] At the age of nine, his dancing during the newly introduced music and movement classes was strikingly imaginative: teachers called his interpretations “vividly artistic” and his poise “astonishing” for a child.[9] The same year, his interest in music was further stimulated when his father brought home a collection of American 45s by artists including the Teenagers, the Platters, Fats Domino, Elvis Presley and Little Richard.[10][11] Upon listening to Little Richard’s song “Tutti Frutti“, Bowie would later say, “I had heard God”.[12]

Presley’s impact on him was likewise emphatic: “I saw a cousin of mine dance to … ‘Hound Dog‘ and I had never seen her get up and be moved so much by anything. It really impressed me, the power of the music. I started getting records immediately after that.”[11] By the end of the following year he had taken up the ukulele and tea-chest bass, begun to participate in skiffle sessions with friends, and had started to play the piano; meanwhile his stage presentation of numbers by both Presley and Chuck Berry—complete with gyrations in tribute to the original artists—to his local Wolf Cub group was described as “mesmerizing … like someone from another planet.”[11] After taking his eleven-plus exam at the conclusion of his Burnt Ash Junior education, Bowie went to Bromley Technical High School.[13]

It was an unusual technical school, as biographer Christopher Sandford wrote:

Despite its status it was, by the time David arrived in 1958, as rich in arcane ritual as any [English] public school. There were houses, named after eighteenth-century statesmen like Pitt and Wilberforce. There was a uniform, and an elaborate system of rewards and punishments. There was also an accent on languages, science and particularly design, where a collegiate atmosphere flourished under the tutorship of Owen Frampton. In David’s account, Frampton led through force of personality, not intellect; his colleagues at Bromley Tech were famous for neither, and yielded the school’s most gifted pupils to the arts, a regime so liberal that Frampton actively encouraged his own son, Peter, to pursue a musical career with David, a partnership briefly intact thirty years later.[13]

Bowie studied art, music and design, including layout and typesetting. After Terry Burns, his half-brother, introduced him to modern jazz, his enthusiasm for players like Charles Mingus and John Coltrane led his mother to give him a plastic alto saxophone in 1961; he was soon receiving lessons from a local musician.[14] Bowie received a serious injury at school in 1962 when his friend George Underwood punched him in the left eye during a fight over a girl. After a series of operations during a four-month hospitalisation,[15] his doctors determined that the damage could not be fully repaired and Bowie was left with faulty depth perception and a permanently dilated pupil, which gave a false impression of a change in the iris’ colour.[16] Despite their altercation, Underwood and Bowie remained good friends, and Underwood went on to create the artwork for Bowie’s early albums.[17]

David Robert Jones was an English singer, songwriter and actor. He was a figure in popular music for over five decades, regarded by critics and musicians as an innovator, particularly for his work in the 1970s. His career was marked by reinvention and visual presentation, his music and stagecraft significantly influencing popular music. During his lifetime, his record sales, estimated at 140 million worldwide, made him one of the world’s best-selling music artists. In the UK, he was awarded nine platinum album certifications, eleven gold and eight silver, releasing eleven number-one albums. In the US, he received five platinum and seven gold certifications. He was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1996.

Born in Brixton, South London, Bowie developed an interest in music as a child, eventually studying art, music and design before embarking on a professional career as a musician in 1963. “Space Oddity” became his first top-five entry on the UK Singles Chart after its release in July 1969. After a period of experimentation, he re-emerged in 1972 during the glam rock era with his flamboyant and androgynous alter ego Ziggy Stardust. The character was spearheaded by the success of his single “Starman” and album The Rise and Fall of Ziggy Stardust and the Spiders from Mars, which won him widespread popularity. In 1975, Bowie’s style shifted radically towards a sound he characterised as “plastic soul“, initially alienating many of his UK devotees but garnering him his first major US crossover success with the number-one single “Fame” and the album Young Americans. In 1976, Bowie starred in the cult film The Man Who Fell to Earth and released Station to Station. The following year, he further confounded musical expectations with the electronic-inflected album Low (1977), the first of three collaborations with Brian Eno that would come to be known as the “Berlin Trilogy“. “Heroes” (1977) and Lodger (1979) followed; each album reached the UK top five and received lasting critical praise.

After uneven commercial success in the late 1970s, Bowie had UK number ones with the 1980 single “Ashes to Ashes“, its parent album Scary Monsters and Super Creeps, and “Under Pressure“, a 1981 collaboration with Queen. He then reached his commercial peak in 1983 with Let’s Dance, with its title track topping both UK and US charts. Throughout the 1990s and 2000s, Bowie continued to experiment with musical styles, including industrial and jungle. He also continued acting; his roles included Major Celliers in Merry Christmas, Mr. Lawrence (1983), the Goblin King Jareth in Labyrinth (1986), Pontius Pilate in The Last Temptation of Christ (1988), and Nikola Tesla in The Prestige (2006), among other film and television appearances and cameos. He stopped concert touring after 2004, and his last live performance was at a charity event in 2006. In 2013, Bowie returned from a decade-long recording hiatus with the release of The Next Day. He remained musically active until he died of liver cancer two days after the release of his final album, Blackstar (2016).

I love this song. That’s Stevie Ray Vaughn on guitar!


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